Monthly Archives: February 2014

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Valentine’s Day 2014

So, as many of you know, for many (10) years, I wrote a list of dating tips, which I published on Valentine’s Day. I got older (inevitable, or better than the alternative), got (marginally) wiser, and thus began running out of source material. Thank goodness. One hopes ones mistakes get less interesting with age. Anyway. I made a book; it’s here:
http://store.blurb.com/ebooks/187750-ten-years-of-valentines

And, frankly… it’s awesome.  <–subjective

I have one item this year, and it’s…
The thing you’re trying to explain away about your partner now will be the reason you break up later. Or the reason you should. Seriously, they’re called red flags for a reason.

And, all years:
https://phreddiva.wordpress.com/2013/02/14/valentines-day-list-2013/

The end result? Valentine’s Day became a holiday I loved, and to which I looked forward and, if some of you are to be believed, provided a reason to look forward to a generally obnoxious, NOXIOUS, ridiculous holiday. So… Thank you. 

And, if you’re new here… uhm. Hi. More about me than you ever wanted to know.